Nice to hear from you LTH smile

I struggle with what path to take.

Do I give her MORE time and space to sort through her feelings?

or

Do I take a hard stance. Tell her there will be no separation or divorce and that she needs to sort through her feelings and figure out WHY she feels the she feels?

M-38
W-32
D7, S4
M-10
BD-May '12
S for 1 month-June '12
Reconcile, Piecing