thanks heart14, I actually feel pretty good right now, its interesting to note the ages of the possible mlc's on here, quite a few seem to be in the 30's age bracket, I though I was just fishing originally, grasping at straws, but a lot of h's behaviours in the past couple of years are definitely mlc, the gambling, drinking, secretive behaviours, new clothes, ILYBIMNILWY, ow, I know I played a big part in the demise of our m, but looking now, with less emotion, I can see the definite mlc signs. so I'm just going to keep doing what I'm doing, see what works, and what doesn't. it really was nice to see him tonight, makes me smile on the inside
