How am I doing this ?

[dawgy]

Thanks guys for some input and i will agree i havent detach in th DB way totally ,but when you still live in the same hous w with children that we are trying to keep oblivious to whats going one , its not easy to totally detach . I feel different about my sitch daily so its hard to make decisions that are the best . I agree with you all but i think Sandi is being a little rough on me . Maybe i need the roughing but really i think that my sitch is a little different because we are not separated .I think Ive done well going from spying , begging and pleading and trying to reason to doing none of that > i can say honestly I have noer clue what the status of her affair is or what she does every day . All I can say is that she has shut me out as her husband and she seems to be turning us into roomates . I hate it > I want my wife back but everyday she carries this on the less and less I feel I care . Also I met another woman who wants to talk > She is very attractive and that scares me . I dont want to see her because I m afraid it will detach me big time from my wife and possibly make me throw in the towel . Im feeling feelings that I ve never felt towards my wife (anger resentment , how could she hurt me like shes been doing ? )This other woman may make me feel so good I may decide to move on . Please help me . I dont want to lose my family