I agree with both matt and your L. If you are basically paying his way anyway, I would separate the finances. I have learned the lesson about how quickly an MLCer can trash their finances as well as others. If that is a way to get him to come up with the idea to move out, then it is an easy way for you to get to where you need to be right now. Look at it like this, when you were young was it easier to dump a boyfriend or easier to convince him to dump you?
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