GOOD!!! I am glad you did not confront her. I was just catching up, and as I was reading your posts from about 20 hours ago, I was getting worried you were going to do something really no good.
You definitely need to stop with the mind reading, the worrying about what she is doing, where she is, who is she with. That stuff will do you no good, and get you into more conflict with your W than needs to be there. Let it go, and detach. All of these things can be dealt with in time, but the time has to be right, and SHE has to want to deal with them. That time is not now, so NOTHING you do or say or ask will make a bit of difference and will only push her farther away. Good job avoiding those pitfalls today, and spend the next week NOT worrying about what she is doing
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
