Dealing with an ongoing affair

[PeterV2]

Ok so she came back from the spa tonight. She said she slept most of the time and she feels a lot better. She had taken my advice and turned her cell phone off completely so that's why she didn't respond to my text last night asking if she got there ok. We always check in on one another when traveling. So my imagination had gotten the better of me last night.

She sent me a text this evening inviting me over for a visit. I went in due course (no rushing) and we had a pleasant evening, getting her stuff packed for her vacation. She's talking at length about our friend and his family in Miami so I'm not as suspicious as I was yesterday. It's just a bit of a rollercoaster ride for me. I'm about 90% sure she's not meeting he OM there. Still there's that nagging doubt. But I just have to detach.

She definitely seems more relaxed and happier after just a day's break from work. She's been working basically non-stop for 18 months and she's burned out. I think the 9 days incommunicato will do her a world of good. Maybe help get her head screwed on right again. I'm taking care of her business while she's gone.

I'm feeling much better tonight. Sorry for the ranting last night. Yikes!

I didn't ask to see her phone. That's pressuring and she wouldn't appreciate it. She'll open up when she's good & ready, and maybe when she's more relaxed and less burnt out. I'll just continue on my own path for now.