I have found it's been getting a bit easier - once I know what to expect and how to react, it's easier to keep calm and do what I need to do the next time. The list of 180s and ways to respond that work is growing all the time, and it's comforting to have some established ways of dealing with a situation.


M - 34
H - 36
Together 10 years
Married 4 years
BD - March, 2014