Thanks Bea. Somehow what you posted about this not being so simple gives me some comfort and maybe hope I just dont know anymore. He is miles and miles away and I have no idea what he does or how he even looks these days. These little interactions we have about business are all I have. And this is why I try to draw a picture, which is probably not so accurate.
I copied the company file into my QB. I can tell H was very conservative about spending the money on food until the FIFA started (because he is probably at the bars watching the games.) He also hasnt made much money for the last couple of months. So, he was probably depressed, this is why the silence. I know, the speculation... I just know that H would be upset about not making the money he needs to make in order to pay for the vacation home, not even talking about him living there for more than a couple of month.
At the same time he is still nice to me. Maybe it is finally clicking that Im not the cause of his unhappiness.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state