And after 14 years, I have the guilt of for better or worse, sickness and health, to death do us part.

Both of got sick in different ways. I'm getting through the mental block of helping her is not helping her .....

Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015