Yes, your sitch is different in that regard juliegayle - you shouldn't leave your home (& you didn't start this anyway!)

Hopefully, he would leave at some point. Take care of yourself in the meantime (we all need to be healthy & strong (!!) to deal with this 'whirling nest of unknowns' ... )
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pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017