Sorry, I don't agree. You have the ability to control what questions you choose to answer and how detailed you choose to be. "No thanks I'll stay home" is assertive; "oh gee I can't find the cat" is immature. For your convenience and comfort, you have told fibs to your x several times and reported it here. Your daughter's observing her mother, who is an adult she looks up to. I thought it might be something you'd want to work on.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.