#33: HOLDING my ground... my self value

[adinva]

I get frustrated when you spin what I say. You did lie, about the cat being difficult, which you texted him and he called back (probably because it sounded like the lame excuse that it was) that started the conversation.

The cat being difficult was not your reason for not going, and you knew it, and cooked it up with intention to avoid him, and cooked it up with your daughter. That is lying, and that is modeling lying and unassertiveness. And that is what I was calling you on, and asking you some questions about, which have now gotten buried with other responses.

However I did want to clarify because you do misrepresent what I say, often, in your rebuttals of what I said. I thought it was pretty obvious that the lie was about the cat.