So, if you're able to tell me to go pound salt...how come you can't tell him? If you're able to ignore posts that you don't like, how come you can't ignore him?
This man is stringing you along in sooooo many ways. You hang on his every word and action.
You can say it to me and others on here who pi$$ you off because you aren't as heavily invested in what we think.
But, somehow, you've become convinced that this man is necessary for YOUR SURVIVAL as a human being. He's not. Not a bit.
He is a flawed human being just like the rest of us, but it seems like there's this little girl inside you who is desperately, desperately trying to get his attention. I've been there.
How you feel responding to me, is how it should feel...to some extent...with him...that's your goal. Your goal is to be able to tell him to pound salt and not care one way or the other how he responds. That's detachment. That's how it feels.
Talk to that little girl and reassure her that he cannot hurt her anymore because YOU won't allow it. YOU can become your own life support instead of relying upon him.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
