Paragraph after paragraph of EXBF's actions/words followed by MM's REACTION. Isn't that the definition of Co-dependency??
MM's EXBF's Actions/Words + MM = MM's REACTION, MM's Analyis,
Sum Total = MM's LIFE
Sorry to be harsh, but honestly Magic!! I don't see you getting this??! It's maddening.
And, you mentioned a few days ago how you are waiting for him to act morally right...To do the right thing because he is, down deep, a good person and will do the right thing...WHA?????? Are you familiar with this Forum? This is MLC!!! They don't operate under the same rules.
Sorry. I just couldn't contain it today.
I see a very sad, frightened woman who is hanging onto this man's pantleg. Maybe I see it because I've been known to hang onto pantlegs myself. But, I was called on it. Harshly. I took notice. You seem to ignore and want a cookie from everyone here, every time you have some ridiculous conversation or swig of water.
Go back to your regularly scheduled program.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson