AJ. I have a lot of ideas percolating since I read your post. I want to respond when I can think more clearly than I can during the presentation vacay cleaning bonanza.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15