You seemed to handle the reunion well. And you seem to at least have a good understanding of what your H is going through and how it translates to his actions. I hate your D had to find out. That must have been really tough. I really do not have much to add except for your last statement...

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I guess with detachment, it doesn’t matter.


YES...EXACTLY!

Best of luck to you!

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16