KGirl, I feel badly if my words earlier hurt you. They weren't meant to inflict pain. Can I offer a virtual hug?
I reposted something I found on an old thread on artsy's thread. It's long so I don't want to hijack your thread but let me know if you don't see it. You may found it a little bit comforting. Stages of LBS.
Don't worry if moving out was different than the advice most people get. You did what was right for you and it sounds like it has done good things for your state of mind. Keep enjoying your own space.
One thing to think of as you prepare for your MOH's visit... Your current circumstances aren't a step backward. They are steps forward in a direction you didn't plan to take. You're doing good, important things on your new path -- relish them!!
And really, a huge, big-sisterly hug for you. I don't want to add to your pain.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
