Alternative is that I just back way off. Be cool. Be distant. leave her to her own. I need space. So does she. If she's still in the A with OM then let her deal with that on her own. I know how conflicted she was. And she still is conflicted.
Still I feel like telling her that if she's meeting OM in Miami she may as well not even come back. Crepe this is hard.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014