rayzzz, it all comes back to detaching. do not worry about trying to forgive or getting rid of resentment. just DONT think about it right now. Or all you will do is stew in the dark. I know it is hard, but push it to the back of your mind and force yourself to think of something else any time the subject pops up in your mind. Worry about forgiveness when the time comes to R and forgiveness is the topic of the day. Today's topic is not forgiveness, today's topic is DETACHMENT.
Your friend,
Lover of the Night
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
