I would agree with all of this except the part about you shooting him down. Make him "commit" to sex with you by "chasing" you a bit playfully. Dont shoot him down at all though. Maybe even do something like semi-violently push him back on the couch or bed and undo his pants and use your mouth for a minute and then climb on top of him. You doing things like this will plant the idea in his mind that you WANT to do it and not just to fix the situation. You have to trust us on this one. Be confident, sexy and flirty a bit without pursuit.
Sex can be a great healing/bonding experience. And make-up sex is on a whole different level. Im not saying that it will solve all of your problems here, but it could calm the storm alot.
When that works and your H goes on the trip, let me know. I have some more ideas for you
No worries about shooting him down. If he initiated, I'd go for it - I want him thinking about me and acting on it and I'm not about to mess this up again - turning him down would be devastating. I really want to have this with him, and I think it would do us both worlds of good and be a good start to sorting some of this out.
It feels like forever since I've been flirty with H. I hope I haven't forgotten how. Time to go and do yoga in super short yoga shorts again - wish me luck!
M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014
