I understand why you want to see a sex therapist but I completely agree with Ben2010. Just let him see you looking hot in yoga pants or something thing similar. It's just planting the idea in his mind. Just like dating, you are being flirty and attractive. I think some times its the simplest things that work than over analyzing it... Just my 2 cents.
Thanks, CSan - I do have a tendency to over-analyse things.
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