I agree G'belle... and the same goes for him having a life. Just today, a neighbour pointed out to him that he keeps chasing money, but missing out on life. That summer is just about over. He had an excuse. Once he gets the location secured... he will have a life.
Apparently, he doesn't know how to manage both. Only one thing at a time.
Gabby.... To answer your question about water... because HE has an issue with "sharing" personal things and I don't believe many people "share" drinks with their business partners or fellow workers. I found that behaviour ODD. I am not obsessing about it. I just posted it for my reference.
Yes, that IS what I am doing... working through my inventory, so that I can get out! It has little to do with wanting to be with him for a relationship. I find it so much easier to not be around him... I am OK. I would be so much further along without him in my daily life.... I know this... So, it would be easier on me to be out of this business. However, I am being strategic & smart... trying to get my hands on my hard efforts & what I deserve. I may be going about it differently than some others would. But, I know what I have to do to get what is rightfully mine.
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As I was anxious to leave work last night (later than usual, after writing a deal), he asked if I would come over and work on a vehicle with him. I said no. He was also trying to convince me it made sense as I could bring back the cat to the house. I said no. As leaving he asked if I was going into town, to pick up my daughter (nosey). I said no & left.
Last night he randomly texts at 8:30: One more sold, 2 down the road...cheers
Normally, I would be anxious to type back "cheers". I texted back: Yep, it was a good business day.
He also started texting my DD... asking her to the movies tonight.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)