If S made a stink, he could opt out. But, he may have to make a stink...and, is that worth it? IDK.
You're not helpless Wishing. I know it feels that way. S isn't helpless either. There are solutions here.
I think you may feel better if you explore what your options are...in the worst case scenario. If S cannot continue to endure this. He is smart and that's almost a pity because...I was smart...and I know...when you see the insanity, it makes it that much harder to ignore it. Ignorance is bliss.
On the other hand, being smart means you can develop coping skills...with guidance.
IDK. I hurt for you and for him.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
