Stop worrying about her and the OM and worry about YOU!
If she picks the OM their is nothing you can do about it.
She probably is not going to pick you cause she has you wrapped around her pinky.
Until you let her go she has no pressure on her to let go of the OM.
And even after she lets the OM go she will still be VERY BROKEN.
Is that what you want a BROKEN wife?
OX does she fear losing YOU? WHY not?
She does fear loosing me. Yesterday I emailed her and said I found two beautiful apartments we can go look at them on Saturday so she can pick one.
She went nuts emailed me back in all caps. I know some of it was manipulative.
We had a long talk last night she is insisting she is inly seeing him a couple of times a week for lunch and on the weekends only out in public. She shad she told him nothing physical he want nuts in her that she needs to understand he's not for the flesh.
He just feels he wants to be alone with her to talk with her in private.
I told her that the minute a man says he is not for the flesh it's the opposite.
She tells me if anything physical happens she would kill herself because she has promised the sons that she is being plutonic with me and I'm right now.
The crazy thing is she tells Me she booked a fly fishing trip for me and her for the weekend if my birthday! Talk about a cake eater.
She's is for a surprise . When OM shows up a week from today and he goes to see him When she comes home all her stuff will be In the basement apartment.
She keeps insisting we have made great progress and I have to let this play out ! I told her what so in two years you can leave and hurt me again!
