You are fighting with the switch from DB'ing dimness to working on a relationship again. It is difficult....You spent a good period of time shutting down your relationship part of your person while working on yourself. You need to fight those negative feelings and realize them for what they are....Part of the process my friend.
First.....No expectations and go with the flow. This will help you, remember it.
Going out with her friends- This is totally ok my man. You are not infringing on her social circle and personal time. She invited you which means she wanted you to spend time with her. In the past you said you did not want to spend time with her friends. So let me ask you this....How does it feel that she doesn't go to your game? Now that you asked yourself that....You joining her and her friends is a much bigger deal than the soccer game. Another thing for your personally....hanging out with her friends could be part of new B and opposite what old B would have been done. In the end it isn't about you socializing a ton with her friends or even her....It is purely about you being there where she wanted you to be.
The ride home- Very simply...no dilemma....Do what is right!! The right thing to do was to go back and get her. If you are there for her...her rock...her hero...You would be there.
