So is there a point at which there is so little contact between d16 and myself that I can move back to the States? I have more friends there than here, I actually go to an office to work (and see people - here I see none and talk to no one, working from home) and there is more to do. If my life is to be being alone at home, working, 5 days a week, and d16 and W show up on weekend, and d16 spends 95% of her time with W, there isn't much comfort in that.