Hi cczamo I am late to your thread.. have been wallowing a lot in my misery... but you seemed to be writing for me..
and I have taken strength today from your dignity.. I think I am still standing.. I think.. I find it really difficult to detach...I sort of blame the boards.. makes me spend too much time thinking about him and us.. it has been 10 months.. I see him distancing and I work hard not to pursue.. I have learned a lot about me too... I wonder too much sounds like a good idea to have some one live at your place.. the long lonely nights are horrible. So I hope this is a happy weekend for you.. running is such a life saver.. well sanity saver anyway.. and I had the same comment.. that I did not go running with him.. except he did not run. Not until he met the OW?.