I've been wondering how on earth do I navigate H. saying they he wants change but but won't accept change. It seems impossible.
Most likely he is afraid any change you make will not be permanent. He has to see the changes last over a period of time before he buys into the 'new' you.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16