Hey CC - a big hug to you (((()))). Well, like TL said, it can only get better from here. Take back your life. Don't let what he's done ruin you. Personally, I don't think I'd honor that greeting card type comment,"Wishing you the best", with a response. Sounds kind of cold and disingenuous (sp?) to me. But that's me.

So you wept a little - - that's good. Maybe a larger cry has already occurred, but it is also really, really good. Feel it all, yell scream, laugh, sob . . .whatever! But don't keep it down. Then think about those things you'd like to accomplish for the day, for the week, month or year! Work on that bucket list. I found that very helpful the last few weeks. Yes, you will be okay. And I truly believe that this is one of the hardest things to go through in life, but if you can get through this you can get through anything!

Sorry I'm a little late getting back to you - had a couple of busy days at work doing field work and the reports that follow. But you have been on my mind and I wish you nothing but peace and joy from this day forward. My mantra for the next few weeks , May CC have all the good things I ever wanted for myself. smile

Take care, my friend. Post often - get it out there. Rest. Check in on you in a couple days.


Me 59 H47
M12 T22
No kids
BD&S Apr 2,2013 - ILYBINILWY
Filed 2/12/14
OW 11/13
The Universe always strikes you at your weakest point because that’s what most needs strengthening." – Joseph Campbell