I know the possibility of your H leaving is very troubling to you.
You must remember until you have all the facts surrounding this possibility you have no idea what might happen so worrying about it is pointless right now.
Continue to detach, GAL and do your 180's.
Your H is on his own journey at the moment you must let him complete it. You can't control what he does so try to keep a PMA and let go of the bad thoughts. I know it is hard but it is a must if you want to have a chance at R.
It took me many months to be able to learn this. I still am not totally there but it does get better.
Patience is your friend.
Hang in there!!
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
