True - I'll admit to being pretty resistant to change at the best of times, so change now feels especially threatening. I've been seeing the trip and the fact that he perceives it as a time to clarify his thinking and make a decision about the R as the be all and end all, which gives it a whole lot of power.
M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014
