Cross country DB with WAS

[Anders]

An interesting conversation today with a good friend who gave me her perspective on the pursuer-distancer dynamics:

1. The rules are slightly different for a left behind husband dealing with a WAW and a left behind wife dealing with a WAH.

2. In general don't pursue but to keep the door open, WAWs do need to feel that there is some spark of interest left in LBH. The occasional reaching out first email/call may be good.

3. Pay attention to her menstrual cycle. There are certain points where you contacting her will be received very positively and others where she couldn't care less (A bit hard for me to do with the long distance but still a new one for me).

Any thoughts on these?