Got another call from the W last night. This one was even friendlier than the last one. She was in the car with her 12 year old niece and they were going to get something to eat. She talked to me about how her sister was really starting to irritate her because she has stopped being friendly to her when she comes over. I didnt think she would do that in front of her niece as it is her mom, but the niece agrees with her so I guess its ok to her.
She ended up letting me go so that they could jam out to some music on the way home, but then called me back about 30 minutes later. We talked for about an hour and a half more. She asked me if I wanted to go to the movies tonight, but I told her that I couldnt because I have to work until midnight. Also told her that I had gotten a deal through work for a restaraunt that she likes alot. $3 for a $25 gift certificate but you had to spend $50 to use it. Told her that she could use that with her family or when they order it for lunch at work because you have to spend that much to use it. She told me no that if I got it for her, she would be going with me. I said that we dont spend anywhere near $50 when we go there. She said "well I guess we will have a lot of spaghetti then" and laughed.
All in all a great convo. She told me some embarassing stories about herself too that I had never heard before! Some of which were ridiculous and made me laugh extremely hard. No R talk at all, which is how I would like it to stay for right now. Eventually Im sure we will end up talking about it, but not now.
The only thing that concerns me about this is that she is not really talking to her sister right now. Im hoping that she isnt just turning to me temporarily because her normal outlet is not available. Either way if it is, I have still made some strides with her and a positive impact on her with the "newer" me. I dont want to say "new" because Im not finished.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14