oh and also, my FIL, stopped talking to her a month ago, he said there is no more he can say or do, if she wants to jump into this decision then let her do it. He told her that he feels she is making a huge mistake. He only hears tidbits from what W tells her mom. He wants to help me "Win her back".
Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14