I'm glad you are hanging in there and doing well with GAL. Keep going and stay NC. I truly believe hardcore NC is what turned my sitch around.
I think she really thought she was going to lose me! Of course, I would have never believed that in a million years while I was in it. But giving her time and space with me no where in sight proved to be beneficial. I think it gave her time to really think about the importance of me in her life (and vice versa).
