I think I know the reasons behind your advice....you were once there. Its how you thought at the time, and why I appreciate soooo much your insight. Its almost like a chance to see what she is thinking, without you sandi2 I would have never guessed and made things much worse.
Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14