As much as he might deserve to be thrown out, I don't think this is the way to go. It might feel good in the moment, but there's a very real possibility that it will anger your W. and drive her to him even more.
Plus, as much as you're hurting right now, I don't think this is the person that you want to be. If nothing else, consider whether the person that your W. would be a fool to leave would carry out this kind of action.
Keep working on the things you're working on, and make sure that some of the are quite obviously for you (perhaps something for yourself with no clear benefit for her?)
M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014
