Until you take away his power you will never get his respect! MM, at this point you would be better off just quitting and never seeing him. <<< I agree, but cannot without walking away from everything. I cannot do that. I have all my money invested in this company. I am entitled to my salary, growth & investment. I will hold out for as long as I can, until I am in a better position financially.
You can't seem to separate business from R and it's killing ANY chance of reconciliation, of any kind. <<< explain how I am not separating work from R... ??
Go to work. Do YOUR job. Talk ONLY about business while there. Go home. Do not call. Do not answer his calls. Live YOUR life, totally separate from him! <<< I AM!!
If he asks about what you are doing outside of work treat him like you would someone you work with only. Do not offer to make his life easier in any way. His stress his HIS to deal with, not yours. <<<< I AM !!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
