Yes. And the MC who's actually advising you to condone this arrangement.
And I'm saying goodbye myself, because I obviously can't help you and it's unkind to keep beating you up about it.
Good luck, Ox. I truly hope you see the error of all of this someday soon, and get your dignity back. As for this woman of yours, if it were me -- I wouldn't want her. She is not a woman of quality.