Thanks, AJ, but I'm not duking anything out, unless she does something horrible to my kids and even then I will probably address it with J, not OW. She is nothing to me.

I only talk to J about the kids. But he usually uses that opportunity to raise issues about other things. Frankly, I think J just likes to hear himself talk. It makes him feel important. I don't know if he even cares if a resolution is made or not. He uses whatever excuse he can to talk to me about anything. I think honestly part of him is trying to aggravate OW and then blame it on me. He's good at that. Shifting the blame part, I mean. That doesn't mean I will hold onto that blame. Heck no. She wanted crazy, she got crazy. She's going to a wedding tomorrow with J and the kids. I am sure that will be a huge dog and pony show. Not many people there like OW either. Oh, they will be nice and courteous to her face and then talk madly behind her back.

Oh yes, I am glad to not be a part of that crazy anymore. No matter how you dress up that pig's ear, it ain't even relatively close to a silk purse.

WH


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"