Ok, so my MIL called yesterday to tell me about the party on Saturday. She said she wants me to come even though my W isn't living with me any more. I told her W had mentioned it but never told me what time or anything else. She then said that she also isn't sure if W is coming because her fridge is coming, etc. Now I just talked to my D19 who told me she is coming home (yea!!) to stay tonight but will be going to her mom's Saturday. I asked her about the party and she said she didn't think she would be going as her mom wasn't going to go. ??? I have been texting my D14 for 2 days now and she hasn't returned one text! Her sister hasn't heard from her either. First time she has stayed more than a single night at her mom's and no one can reach her? I'm thinking of texting my W and asking why I can't seem to reach my D!
I'm wondering now about this party. Is my W using the fridge as an excuse because she doesn't want to go if I go? Why can't I reach my D? I can't call on land line because my W doesn't have one! If this is how things are going to be when she has my D14, I really don't like it! If I can't reach my D14 again today I may just show up at my W's place on my way home. I don't like not being in touch especially since this is the first multi day stay at her mom's! Knowing my W, acting like teenager, she is just not thinking about how anyone else may feel about things.
OK, I need to just take a deep breath and stop reading into anything. My D19 is staying at her mom's because (as she said) her mom made her feel bad because she didn't want to. I'm starting to have second thoughts about going to my in-laws party and I can't get ahold of my D14 which isn't like her at all! She lives with that phone constantly in her hand!
Anyone have any thoughts about the party and if I should go? Part of me wants to but part of me thinks that I should be doing something not involving my W instead. What about my D14. Do you think it's a good idea to just stop by? Her mom won't be there (I don't think) as she will most likely be at work. I wouldn't even think about it if I could get ahold of my D14. It's only been 2 days, am I making too much of not being able to get ahold of her?
