Wait. So J can pull all this crap with you and the kids and then pin it all on you and the new OW? He can just step aside while you two duke it out?

Seems wrong to me somehow. Ironically, I felt a similar attempt being made by ex not long ago. It struck me as odd. My way of dealing with it? I don't talk to either of them. I'll talk to her if and when necessary, but he has absolutely nothing I need. Nada. I neither need to get angry with him nor happy about him. I don't have to like him nor do I have to dislike him. He's a lot like the cardboard that my television came in. I see it, but I don't really get excited about it. smile

Food for thought,

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."