I have tremendous respect for your ability to stand your sane ground, within the insanity, as a beam of stability for your kids. I'm sure this will be invaluable. I really do respect your willingness to BE in the mix. My siblings and I didn't have this when my dad married his OW. I can see how helpful it would have been to have my mom as the sane party...always there if we needed her. We were left to fend for ourselves. I get it.

It's like having a safety net in the background, always there to step in, if need be.


"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson