Pretty uneventful week. H has initiated a few texts about house concerns. Making sure pool guy is taking care of pool. The yard looked ok from lawn guy.
He calls kids each evening to say goodnight. Sometimes he asks to speak to me after talking to them about their day. And he just asks a few additional questions about their day.
He is picking up the older 2 kids this evening and taking them to the beach for the weekend. Sunday is his 40th birthday. I let the kids pick out cards for him. Not really sure if I should acknowledge his birthday.
He did tell me last night that they will be home Sunday afternoon and he will have to stay at "the house" Sunday night. He then wants to spend some time with the baby on Monday morning before leaving to go back out of town.
It has been easier to detach since I have not seen him in two weeks. Feeling a little anxious about kid pick up this afternoon. But I planned to be already dressed to go out. My mom is watching baby for me & I'm getting together with a girlfriend.
Not looking forward to Sunday as it is his birthday & I have to be around him. I agreed that I would allow him time to spend with baby but would still be around as baby has some medical issues and H is not comfortable caring for him by himself for extended periods.
Don't know if I should plan to cook or let him handle his dinner and pretend I'm not here as this is "his" time with kids. I don't want to Persue but always don't want it to come back at me that I didnt acknowledge his 40th birthday - we have been together since he was 23.
Any advice, tips, suggestions?
Thanks!!!
Last edited by Sam3; 07/11/1404:02 PM. Reason: Word
H:40 Me:35 D5 S4 S3 months Married 8 years Together 17 years BD: 5/23/2014
