I haven't read your thread, but sometimes it is too late. Be thatt as it may, the things you've learned about yourself can't be taken away in a D settlement.

You can give them away.

I hope you won't.

Never underestimate the human capacity for change. Look at you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss