Thanks pilot! Yes, I am taking things one day at a time. It doesn't hurt so much being in NC. I am kind of starting to feel like a chapter in my life has closed...and I don't want to go back. I guess that's as it should be because any R the WAW and I may have in the future needs to be a new one...from scratch. I really feel a bit guilty, almost like I should be more upset than I am. Almost like my GAL and PMA has gone into overdrive. I don't know if this makes sense but it's the only way I can describe how I feel these days. I appreciate your advice and kind words. Thank you and I will keep checking in here.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14