The morning sun is shining like a red rubber ball.

[wishing, hoping]

Heather, if this man falls off the sharp cliff, I hope he takes OW with him. They can't be apart for too long you know.

Yes, he did call and leave a message that he would stop by, but I was outside trying to unload my oven, so I didn't get the message until after he left.

J called again this morning and said he told OW to pack up the stuff at her house for the dog so he can give it to me. He still hasn't given me the money he promised and with J I don't believe he will do anything until he actually does it. He said he would give me a check. HA! Will it be any good? He better know that he will never hear the end of it if it isn't.

J wants to get together so we can go over paystubs and set a basis for exchanging financial information. He asked me if I had variable expenses already and I said yes, but he said he had none. Well duh...who do you think pays for most of the kids' stuff? It isn't J, the wonder dad.. It's poor WH who puts the kids first all the time.

I was talking to a friend about my conversation with J and she said I don't believe he would defend you to OW, and I said J would for two reasons: One, J loves drama and is probably stirring the pot with OW. He used to defend his first ex to me whenever I got frustrated with her antics and OW will not escape that path. J loves to pit people against each other. His mother was a pro at that as well. Two, J knows that I will do anything for those kids and if he ticks me off too much, then he has lost his backup for the kids. He is trying to butter his bread on both sides without making a mess.

And yes, Heather, I am sure he loves the fantasy in his head that two women are "fighting" over him. GAG. I'm not fighting over him. I am not fighting period.

This guy is off his rocker.

WH