Hi Ggrass, No there is no hurry to decide and there is nothing we can really do right?

But I guess I just need to decide how to interact with him, what to do about our shared stuff etc. Do I tell him to get all his stuff out of the house? He doesn't know that I know about OW.

Do I just play it cool, do I be cold, do I be friendly? I have to decide what I want in the future in order to know how to behave now.

I do not plan to contact him, but so far he contacts me every few days saying hello. I was ignoring him for a while but then felt it made me seem angry and I wanted to seem cool. So I started being friendly back. But now I am not sure what is the best move.

I guess now I need to switch my thread over to the affairs section. This is no fun.


Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.