So it is okay to tell her I feel lonely? I told her this morning how much I love her and that she could always rely on me, and that it'd be nice to see her for a daughter and dad date on Wednesdays.
I'd like to see her often, sure, but have no right to this.
I really like the idea of asking what she wants, and that I want to work out a solution together. The one blessing, if there is one, is that she changed high schools, and so has 3 years left instead of two, here in Sweden, before she (her dream) heads to England to study (s20 is in Scotland).
Agreed that open talk is good, it just needs to be carefully done.
I've registered for an apartment finding service in Stockholm by the way, and already written a place. It might be a bit stupid though, to rent an apartment and have the house still for a while, if d16 doesn't come over. On the other hand, there are a lot of pretty women in Stockholm... and it would be great to get out and about. Just not being in this empty house would be good too...