Im not saying that Im perfect by any means . However i will say that many good marriages have people stray and geet into an affair just out of circumstanses and not because the BS drove the WS to it . What Im saying is shes telling me I did nothing wrong and she doesnt love me anymore . How can I change that ? Yes i can try and figure out what things I may have done to have her not desire me even though she said there wasnt any . But I believe that she met up with OM by chance , they supposed dated back in junior high but I dont believe it . They talked casually and said lets have coffee sometime and presto it happened > Those were her words . She thought that it would be just a fling but it turned into more > Now I know that if she was completely satisfied with me she never would have met him for coffee and it just would have it was nice to see you .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )